Some parents have dreams that they didn't fulfilled in the their times
and they have thought of making their children to take that path.
Without knowing their child's ability and thoughts.
This creates a gap between the child and the parents.
The suppression of the children's thought and dreams creates a high chance of forming depression.
About this topic we will share some views from our side in today's episode.
And please watch the video to the end.
Once, a prophet has end his time and meet his time to went back.
A group of people gathered and about their own questions.
Some asked him about their love life, joys of world, their needs, etc.
Among them a woman who embrace a child in her bossom asked him to tell her about children.
 
The Prophet replied........
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
The poem is from the book 'The Prophet' by Kahlil Gibran called On Children.
We made this from our side that it may be an inspiration to someone.
Let me explain some of the ideas given by this poem.
The first stanza says
Even if our children come through us we don't have the right to judge and decide what he becomes in the future.
The second stanza says our children have their own ideas and thoughts differ from one another.
We won't be able to judge their abilities.
Not only this, we are not aware of what they become in the future.
For example, some parents have dreams of becoming a doctor or engineer
in his or her life but due to some circumstances they didn't make it fulfill.
To make their child went in their opinions they put lots of efforts
and money on private tuitions and other ways
And it has become a trend in our society
On the other side they keep their child's opinion and ideas being suppressed.
They try to drag their child's thoughts on their opinion.
We can care for them but we are not right to drag them to follow our path.
They have their own target and goals that we didn't aware of.
They want to live a life of themselves.
Children are not born and live a life for us but for themselves
They have a hope.
Time never went back and we move along with time.
The last stanza says
The greater we put effort in bending the bow the faster and more swiftly the arrow goes.
What does the writer wants express in this part?
The bow is compared to parents and their arrow as children
On the journey to get a target by a child they need full guidance from their parents.
To make our children a better version of them we need to know their abilities and opinion very well.
On the other side depression has become the most demanding topic.
But depression is a vast topic and being unable to went in depth we will make it in a further episodes.
And in today's episode let's look forward to the positive sides of depression.
But before we go through this topic, let's take a short break.
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Depression is define is a suppression to our thoughts and emotion.
And on the other side there is a term known as expression.
What is expression?
Expression is the ability to express our emotions and feelings.
This is the only weapon to overcome depression.
You should always try to express your thoughts to a company or by maintaining a diary.
Everything you write on the paper may not be making sense.
But it may be an inspiration to someone.
For example the famous pianist, Bethoven
I believe that you might have heard his music.
If he doesn't face depression we might not be able to hear his famous music in the world.
Not only this, an artist named Van Gogh uses his painting as a way to express his emotions and feelings
and it has become a famous art that everyone inpires.
Many way there, say Sam Smith, Adele and Lana Del Rey.
They all face depression
They sing with all their sadness and it has become one of the most famous songs in the worldwide.
The above cannot be form without depression and  added a beauty to our world.
Depression has his own bad effects but we can turn it into a positive way if we desire.
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