good morning guys I am 13 weeks pregnant
today if you saw my post yesterday I
kind of explained why I haven't been
posting that stuff on top of just the
pregnancy exhaustion in the first
trimester and then it was like I got
through the move and then all of a
sudden about a week after I was starting
to get settled the nausea kicked in and
I do want to do some videos on you know
symptoms in the first trimester and all
that stuff but I'm not going to be
promising you any videos right now but
today like I said I'm 13 weeks
pregnant and I have an elective
ultrasound scheduled at 10:00 a.m. to
find out the gender of the baby I know
that I mentioned in I believe it was my
house tour video that I was going to be
doing the sneak peak blood test at 8
weeks pregnant because I did that with
Anakin and the results were accurate but
with Anakin I didn't have any male DNA
in the house and how it works is if it
detects any male DNA in your blood
sample then you're having a boy because
you know as a woman you wouldn't have
male DNA in your system unless you have
a baby boy inside you but
there can be cross-contamination so
because I have male DNA in the house
this time I figured just wait a few
extra weeks but I'm really sorry because
I know that you guys have probably been
waiting patiently for my gender reveal I
didn't want to find out the gender and
then bond with a baby boy or a baby girl
and then find out via ultrasound later
that it was the opposite gender because
it's just hard because it's like
you visualize one gender you visualize
one baby and then it's a totally
different baby you know you name it and
you bond with it I didn't want to go
through with that and
the test is 99.1% accurate and as
long as you're scrubbing cut
your nails and you scrub it all off it
should be accurate but I mean I'm still
breastfeeding and I'm holding Anakin so
much he's my baby and he's a boy so I
mean his DNA is all over me so before
the reveal I wanted to just put this out
there I think that it's a girl now I've
been thinking it was a boy this whole
time because male sperm swim the fastest
and my egg was already there I had
already ovulated it was seven hours
after I
ovulated so obviously the male sperm
would get there faster than the female
sperm but that's not a hundred percent
guaranteed and I've been looking at my
cravings and they've been mostly sweet
since pretty much right when I started
getting the nausea at about eight really
right at eight weeks I believe it was on
the day that I turned eight weeks I got
two weeks of nausea and from that point
on I've been favoring sweet food over
salty I mean I'm not
eating sweets at every single meal but
it is something that I'm favoring and
that's how it was this summer if you
look at like the old wives tales thing
they say that if you're having a girl
it's sweet cravings if you're having a
boy it's more salty so that's just one
thing but I also feel like I've been too
confident that it's a boy and if you're
new to my channel I definitely want a
boy because I have an 18 month old son
18 months I think I'm not sure the date
I think tomorrow he'll be 18 months old
so I would really love for him to have a
little baby brother close an age like a
built-in best friend but either way like
the child being healthy is the most
important thing to me and I got my blood
work back and there's no they detect
like Down syndrome and a lot of
abnormalities like that and all of that
is in the clear which is a big relief
for me you know because of my daughter
but I'm just going to stop rambling
right now and fast-forward to my
ultrasound
head body there's the heart beating
little legs here criss crossed
hi little one how cute
little profile coming through here
there's a little nose lips chin forehead little
legs here
lets listen to the heartbeat
beautiful heartbeat
we're at approximately 154 beats per minute
that's exactly what I got the other day
excellent
beautiful the little hands are to the mouth right here see that
lets go ahead and go into the leg area here
is it okay if i give you a little tap
come on kick those legs
there goes those legs these two were
very uncooperative when it came to this
part the gender yeah I had a whole smoothie so
did you yeah like as we were driving okay
perfect I think it's sunk in so that's
amazing so I'm just gonna kind of be
following the leg area here
behind the leg different angles
oh my god
we're getting closer
okay now I'm thinking I was
wrong
getting closer
oh my gosh is it a girl I was thinking a
boy initially and now I'm like I was totally
wrong yeah let me I'm just gonna get a couple
more angles
to make sure there's no cords
sweeping through
I'm gonna be extra careful make sure we get all of this
I keep thinking I see something there
and I want a boy for him and it's like
driving me crazy
so right here on this angle we look for the nub
see there if it's going parallel out the back of the baby's bottom or straight up toward
the heart so this one looks parallel so let me
every so often I see a shot and there's nothing there and I'm like wait
look at those legs go
baby's doing a flip now
I felt him yesterday for
the first time I couldn't believe it
13 weeks he full did like a somersault
and I stopped in the middle the store
and looked at my daughter like that was
a move that was nothing else that was
definitely baby right look at how active
your baby is that's not me moving that's your baby
thank you for the smoothie the sugar
oh my god is it a boy
I'm like back and fourth back and fourth
then that obviously looks like a girl
here we go
it's a...
it is girl I just keep seeing something pop up like I saw the 
three lines and then
every so often there's like a pop-up
and I'm like which one is it how do you do this for a living
I know trust me so much pressure but so we look from
multiple angles sometimes early on
with the girly parts they will look swollen at the angle like a little nub but if it is
a boy you'll see it like super
pronounced nice and clear
yeah with him it was like oh yeah and he
was 12 weeks so you can even see the little 3 lines coming in right here
totally flat leg leg nothing there oh my gosh thank you you're welcome
yeah so like right there it kinda looks like oh what is that ya that's what I kept seeing like it
looks like but if you change the angle
you need that side angle that's
how they were able to tell with him it
was just sticking up exactly exactly
well there's so much cute girl stuff out there right now 
you'll have so much fun
Summer it's a girl it's a baby girl do
you see the screen yeah
and then there's that little parallel right out the back of the baby's bottom okay so if it's a boy it pops up
right in here above the thigh bone and
then girl shoots straight out the baby's bottom
well she looks so good in there
can I see one more profile if that's
possible sure I'm just dying to see oh she has a tiny little
nose there yeah because I was like I feel like her
hand's sticking out or something yeah that's
her hand but I mean in the other one
that one's perfect that's a perfect profile okay yeah perfect
little button nose right so cute
congratulations did you guys want to see
anything else today let me know no that's good
yeah you see right here that's the little nub that's exactly
that was the shot with him that was like
okay yep there's something
or nothing yeah exactly
thank you so much that's a good shot ya of course it's always nice to keep seeing it over and over you don't want to go back and be like wait
because I don't want to find out at my anatomy scan one of those people
I know
those are terrible stories because you like fall in
love with a certain baby and then it's a
totally different baby exactly that's why we're
so like take our time and make sure I know and you weren't
answering me the whole time I know I was like oh let me just make sure
alrighty congratulations thank you
it's a girl you guys it's a
baby girl I cannot believe it I couldn't
believe it because yeah I've been having
more sweets cravings so I was thinking
that made more sense that it was a girl
like I did with Summer and with Anakin
I was all about salt but she's
beautiful she's so beautiful and Summer
wanted a baby sister so bad when we
found out Anakin was a boy she was
really upset so I mean I'm glad that
she's getting the baby sister she wanted
even though she wanted a baby brother
again cuz she wanted a baby like Anakin
you're happy right or yeah you're
gonna have a little baby sister did you
see her you were watching right yeah I was
watching the screen were you watching the
screen yeah and you saw her yeah
were you happy it was a girl or were you
disappointed happy you're happy yeah
Anakin your baby sister's in mamas tummy
you're gonna be a big brother you're
gonna have a little sister to take care
of yeah you love the baby
do you love the baby you're gonna be such a
good big brother
mom what do you want to call it I have no idea
that's another big thing I have my boy
name I've had my boy name for like years
I mean I had Anakin's name and then I
had this other
name in the back of my mind and then
when I was pregnant with him I came up
with this name and was like okay I'll
use that if I have another boy down the
line so the whole time I've been like
you know when I was TTC-ing and just
this whole 13 weeks of pregnancy I've
had the boy's name and I don't have my
girl's name because the name I had when
I was pregnant with Anakin I have the
first in middle name but it's so
overused now it wasn't it's the name I
wanted for my daughter for my second
daughter if I had a girl I've wanted
since pretty much right after I had
Summer and it just got more and more and
more popular as the years went on and
now I mean I love it I think it's the
most beautiful name but it's so popular
everyone I mean moms chase their
daughters and call their name
in front of me I want to say the name
but I don't because I'm still not sure
maybe I'll use it but they'll call their
their little girls names in front of me
when the little girls are running away
I'm telling you this happens all the
time you know when your kid starts
running away you call them by their name
so that's when you find out what kids
names are and there are so many kids
with this name and there's youtubers who
have named their daughters this and I
just don't want to be like make it
appear like I'm copying people when
really I wanted this name
way before the big
burst of its use got out there but anyway
I do not have a girl's name when I come
up with it it's gonna take a while
because I'm really gonna have to adjust
and like call the baby by certain names
and see if it feels right I can't
believe I'm having a baby girl I'm
having a little girl again and it's just
totally different this time you know
what I mean like it'll be a totally
different experience I'm so happy and I
know that God knows what he's doing and
I was meant to conceive a girl I truly believe
that so
Anakin's not gonna have a little boy best
friend but he's gonna have
a little girl to have a close relationship
with and I think that's actually
going to help him in his future
and his being able to understand girls
you know being close in age with a
little girl sibling I think that's
going to help him a lot so yeah if you
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you guys because with the
way the world is right now and my
pregnancy is right now and just Summer
being out of school I'm not going to
make any promises to you guys but I love
you and thank you so much for sticking
around and you know showing up for the
few videos that I have been putting out
and I will see you in the next video bye!
