- That was really great.
- Wasn’t it?
 
Yeah, it always is.
 
Well, it wasn’t always...
 
Is this... are you good?
 
Yeah. Are you?
- Uh-huh.
- Great.
 
This is just, uh...
 
This is just perfect.
 
Great.
What do I do
with my hands?
 
Uh... I don’t know.
 
Surprise me!
 
Okay! Uh...
- Like...
- Okay.
 
There we go... whoa!
 
Are you okay?
 
Yeah. I’m okay.
- You good?
- Yeah, I’m good.
 
Okay.
- Are you good?
- Yeah.
 
Ouch! I’ve got a cramp.
- What?
- I’ve got a cramp in my neck!
- In your neck?
- I have to stop immediately.
We haven’t even
done anything!
- Hey.
- Hi!
- Finally!
- Yeah.
 
What is that smell?
 
What’s what smell?
 
Oh! I farted.
- Do you want these?
- No.
 
Yeah, right. Uh...
I think I might have
repressed that one.
Like, I hit my head,
actually.
 
That makes me sad.
Do you want
to have sex again?
I don’t know if I can...
Oh, wow! Yeah.
 
Guess I’m not sad anymore!
The “first time” refers
to what you consider
to be your first
sexual experience. 
Many associate the first time
with penetration,
but the first kiss, the first time
being naked with someone,
the first time having oral sex,
or the first caresses are all firsts. 
 
These new sexual experiences
often come with a mixture
of excitement and stress.
Everyone likes to imagine
an ideal scenario
 
where everything goes perfectly.
But there’s often a gap
between expectations and reality.
It’s not always easy to know
what to say or what to do.
Sometimes people giggle nervously
or are a bit clumsy.
They may have to stop
in the middle of the experience,
 
lose an erection or feel pain. 
 
If a girl is insufficiently aroused, 
the lack of lubrication
in the vagina
can cause penetration
to be painful for both partners. 
 
Involuntary vaginal contractions,
 
sometimes caused by stress,
 
can also be painful for girls.
Occasionally, the thin skin membrane
at the entrance to the vagina,
also called the hymen,
tears and bleeds slightly
when experiencing penetration
for the first time.
Sometimes hymens can tear
through other activities,
like horseback riding,
exercise, and cycling.
In order to stretch
the hymen gradually,
it’s better to go slowly
with penetration, 
 
and stop if it hurts.
For the first sexual experiences
to happen as best as possible, 
it can be a good idea to approach
them as a fun game
 
or just a new experience,
without setting a specific goal
or high expectations. 
Time and communication
can make us feel more comfortable. 
With each new contact,
it’s easier to know ourselves
 
and what our partner likes.
As with everything, practice
makes it become more natural!
I think the first time is basically
when you get undressed.
It doesn’t matter
if there’s penetration
 
or if there’s oral sex.
It’s just the first time
you get naked.
My first time did not
go as expected,
but I would not have it
any other way.
It’s something that
I share with my partner,
and from that,
we’ve grown a lot.
Is his question
towards me?
Go for it!
- I don’t know...
 
Repeat the question.
My first time?
Honestly, I don’t remember it.
I should, it wasn’t
that long ago, but...
 
I don’t really remember it.
I think the back story
was not very meaningful.
I don’t think it was
a good back story, but...
I can’t say much,
because I don’t remember it.
 
Well...
 
Uh...
The first one was very
uncomfortable for me,
because I was too young
to almost understand
everything that was
going around me.
 
It was...
 
It was fast, honest.
The first time I did it,
 I was like...
Oh God!
It’s already finished!
Because there’s so much
stigma about, like...
“Oh, it’s gonna hurt!”
But...
I just did it
and it was like...
 
“Oh, it didn’t hurt.”
It was just like...
Oh, it’s done. Okay!
I didn’t think
it was going to hurt,
but for me
it actually hurt,
so that’s what was kind of
not fun about it,
but it was still
an okay experience.
I set up expectations
compared to other people,
let’s say online,
and stuff.
 
And...
When it was an actual
physical experience,
it was very different
from what I’d seen.
I actually haven’t had
my first time yet,
because when
the opportunity has arisen
for something to happen,
I just haven’t felt ready.
I was ready for sex
the first time I had sex.
This was when I had
a boyfriend for two years,
and we had sex
three months in.
 
My first time...
 
was pretty bad.
 
It ended pretty quickly,
and only because I realized
he wasn’t clean.
Oh God!
- Yeah!
