It was a anniversary and Jasmine was waiting for her husband to show up
After some years of marriage, things changed
between them.
Once a cute couple who couldn't live without
each
other had now turned a bit bitter.
They were now ﬁghting over every little
things,
both were ﬁghting on their past,
taking doubts on each other.
Both didn't like changes came into their marriage.
But Jasmine was waiting to see if John
remembered that it was their wedding anniversary.
As the doorbell rang,
she ran towards the door and open it with
smile and a bunch of ﬂowers to greet her
husband.
Both started to celebrate for that evening
as
they had also planned a two weeks vacation
with each other.
Suddenly the phone in the bedroom rang.
Jasmine went to pick it up.
On the call, there was a man who said,
" Hello Ma'am, I'm calling from the police
station.
Is this John's number?"
" Yes it is!" , She replied.
" I'm sorry Ma'am but there
has been an accident and the man died.
We got his number from his wallet.
Can you please come and identify the body?
", Man replied.
Jasmine was shocked!
But my husband is here with me! She replied,
"Sorry Ma'am but the incident took place in
the
afternoon while he was getting off the bus."
Man replied.
Jasmine was about to lose her consciousness.
" How could this happen to me? " She thought
to herself.
She had read stories about soul's returning
to meet their
loved ones after their death before it leaves!
Her heart shank in fear she ran towards other
room to
look for her husband but he was not there.
She said to herself, " It's true! He Left
me forever.
Oh god, I want a second chance to resolve
all the ﬁght we have together.
I want to tell him how much I love him.
I want him back.
She fell on the ﬂoor in pain.
Suddenly there was noise from the bathroom,
the door opened and John came out and said,
" Darling, I forget to tell you today my wallet
was stolen."
Life might not give you a second chance every
time.
Never waste a moment if you Still have a chance.
A study shows that we argue 2,455 times
a year that's around 7 times per day.
Argument and ﬁghts are a part of a relationship.
It's a reality check for each
and every relationship that works out.
In modern-day relationship people live in
past,
plan for the future and ruined the present.
Studies show that 69% of conﬂicts are never
solved,
that means we often
end up ﬁghting on the same problem.
As Kahlil Gibran said,
" Between what is said and not meant, and
what is meant and not said, most of love is
lost."
Instead of emphasizing what's the problem
in the relationship we start blaming each
other for the situation.
We come into love by not ﬁnding a perfect
person,
but learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
Most of the relationship has ﬁghts, arguments,
debates
but none of them emphasises
on the conclusion of those problems
they probably want a temporary solution
which can solve a temporary situation.
But this temporary solution can
ruin their permanent future.
Your relationship does not need to make
sense to anyone, except you and your partner.
It's a relationship. Not a community project.
Partners often come to conclusion on the
temporary situation
instead of focusing on the root cause of the
ﬁght.
As Jay Shetty said, "After some years of marriage,
things changed between them.
Once a cute couple who couldn't live without
each
other had now turned a bit bitter.
They were now ﬁghting over every little
things,
both were ﬁghting on their past,
taking doubts on each other.
Both didn't like changes came into their marriage.
But Jasmine was waiting to see if John
remembered that it was their wedding anniversary.
As the doorbell rang,
she ran towards the door and open it with
smile and a bunch of ﬂowers to greet her
husband.
Both started to celebrate for that evening
as
they had also planned a two weeks vacation
with each other.
Suddenly the phone in the bedroom rang.
Jasmine went to pick it up.
On the call, there was a man who said,
" Hello Ma'am, I'm calling from the police
station.
Is this John's number?"
" Yes it is!" , She replied.
" I'm sorry Ma'am but there
has been an accident and the man died.
We got his number from his wallet.
Can you please come and identify the body?
", Man replied.
Jasmine was shocked!
But my husband is here with me! She replied,
"Sorry Ma'am but the incident took place in
the
afternoon while he was getting off the bus."
Man replied.
Jasmine was about to lose her consciousness.
" How could this happen to me? " She thought
to herself.
She had read stories about soul's returning
to meet their
loved ones after their death before it leaves!
Her heart shank in fear she ran towards other
room to
look for her husband but he was not there.
She said to herself, " It's true! He Left
me forever.
Oh god, I want a second chance to resolve
all the ﬁght we have together.
I want to tell him how much I love him.
I want him back.
She fell on the ﬂoor in pain.
Suddenly there was noise from the bathroom,
the door opened and John came out and said,
" Darling, I forget to tell you today my wallet
was stolen."
Life might not give you a second chance every
time.
Never waste a moment if you Still have a chance.
A study shows that we argue 2,455 times
a year that's around 7 times per day.
Argument and ﬁghts are a part of a relationship.
It's a reality check for each
and every relationship that works out.
In modern-day relationship people live in
past,
plan for the future and ruined the present.
Studies show that 69% of conﬂicts are never
solved,
that means we often
end up ﬁghting on the same problem.
As Kahlil Gibran said,
" Between what is said and not meant, and
what is meant and not said, most of love is
lost."
Instead of emphasizing what's the problem
in the relationship we start blaming each
other for the situation.
We come into love by not ﬁnding a perfect
person,
but learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
Most of the relationship has ﬁghts, arguments,
debates
but none of them emphasises
on the conclusion of those problems
they probably want a temporary solution
which can solve a temporary situation.
But this temporary solution can
ruin their permanent future.
Your relationship does not need to make
sense to anyone, except you and your partner.
It's a relationship. Not a community project.
Partners often come to conclusion on the
temporary situation
instead of focusing on the root cause of the
ﬁght.
As Jay Shetty said, " When you're ﬁghting
the real ﬁght
is both of you against the problem,
not both of you against each other "
