Sometimes it can be difficult to determine
if a woman likes you since girls aren’t
as outward with their flirtation as men.
But, don’t fret!
There are simple ways to tell if she’s into
you.
From a longing gaze to a runway-worthy walk,
here are nineteen body language signals she’s
attracted to you:
19.
Facing You - If you think a girl might be
into you, pay attention to which way she’s
facing.
If her frame is pointing toward you instead
of the opposite direction, it most likely
means that you’ve caught her interest.
If a girl is standing with her torso turned
away from you.
However, that’s a bad sign; it means she
might try to book it elsewhere.
But, if she remains angled in your direction,
seems to be engaged in the conversation, and
doesn’t try to run, then you’ve caught
her eye.
18.
Arms Wide Open - Just like they teach you
in the customer service industry, having your
arms crossed deters people from approaching
you.
So, if you see a woman with her arms locked
in front of her, it’s not an invitation
to spark up a conversation.
Especially if she keeps them up after the
two of you make eye-contact.
However, if she does the opposite, and places
her arms behind her back, above her head,
or starts doing the hokey pokey, well, then
that’s what it’s all about!
This means she’s probably attracted to you
and eager to see where the night leads you.
17.
Checking You Out - This may be a more difficult
signal for you to see, but it’s possible
if you try.
Girls check guys out all the time, although
they’re more secretive about it.
She may use the side-eye method instead of
giving you a full-on stare.
By taking advantage of her peripheral vision,
she can look you up-and-down without being
noticed.
However, there are ways for you to figure
this out.
If you look away really suddenly and then
turn your head back in her direction quickly,
you can see whether or not she followed your
gaze.
Another option is to look straight at her;
if she notices and looks up and away, it could
mean she’s not into you; if she looks down
with a small smile, it’s a sign that she’s
interested.
16.
Close - If a woman is close to you, as in
literally within a few feet of you, that is
a huge sign that she’s attracted to you.
She’s placed herself in your personal bubble
with the intent of getting you to notice her.
It’s even more likely that she’s into
you if she has moved to your vicinity without
her friends.
If you see a girl doing this, it’s time
to make your move.
Acknowledge her, first with your eyes to see
if she’s checking you out, then if she sticks
around, introduce yourself.
If you read her body signals correctly, she’ll
be up for a conversation and might even be
willing to dance!
15.
Legwork - It’s safe to say that most women
won’t start sprinting toward or dancing
around guys they’re attracted to.
It would be a rare occasion that they’d
make it this obvious.
However, there are some signs to pay attention
to concerning a lady’s legs.
This applies to when she’s sitting down
and is similar to what women tend to do with
their arms.
Unless she’s at a formal ball or wearing
a skirt, a woman doesn’t naturally sit with
her legs or ankles crossed, mostly because
it gets uncomfortable after awhile and can
affect circulation.
Nobody likes that tingling sensation when
their legs fall asleep.
So, if you’re approaching a woman and she
goes on the defensive with crisscross-applesauce,
it’s a good indication that she’s not
attracted to you.
But, if you notice that her legs have remained
slightly separated and she keeps her knees
facing you, it’s a signal that she’s attracted
to you.
14.
Fine-Tuning - This is a signal to look out
for once you two have begun chatting it up.
You’ve already made the first move in approaching
her, so you’ve paid attention to some signs
that suggest she’s attracted to you.
However, once you’re in it, this could mean
you’re winning it.
Is she fine-tuning how she looks during your
interaction?
This can include pulling her shirt down or
adjusting her dress, pants, or shorts.
Maybe she’s checking her bra straps or making
sure no clothing tags are sticking out.
If a woman is conscious of what she’s wearing
all of a sudden and wants to fix anything
that could be out of place, then it’s a
sure sign that she’s into you.
13.
Contact - This signal doesn’t refer to whether
or not she’s tried contacting you via talk,
text, or morse code; it means physical touch.
Let’s say the two of you are enjoying each
other’s company, having a blast, and horsing
around.
Then, you make her laugh, and she grazes your
arm with her hand.
This is something you want to pay attention
to because it is a blatant signal of her attraction.
Women don’t usually touch guys they’re
not interested in.
So, if she makes this move, then it’s a
step in the right direction.
12.
Her Eyes - Once you and your love interest
are within arms reach of one another and have
moved on to some light conversation, pay attention
to her eyes.
Don’t stare too long and creep her out,
but there are slight changes that you should
look for.
Do her eyes look wide, more so than you initially
noticed?
If so, this is a sign she’s attracted to
you.
People’s pupils dilate when something excites
them, which can include another person.
Although this signal might be a bit harder
to notice than others, it’s a big hint that
she’s enjoying your company.
11.
Dress Up - This body language sign applies
to when the two of you have already decided
to go on a date.
How do you know that she’s interested and
not just going out with you to be nice?
You’ll know as soon as you see her.
If she’s decided a t-shirt and sweats is
a good outfit for a romantic dinner together,
she’s probably not that into you.
However, if she’s wearing a nice dress or
blouse, and her makeup and hair are on point,
she put in a lot of effort to look good for
you, which can only mean one thing: she’s
attracted to you.
Don’t take it for granted if a woman does
this because applying makeup and finding the
perfect clothes isn’t a walk in the park.
10.
Strut - The first thing you want to pay attention
to concerning this body signal is whether
she’s walking toward or away from you.
If a woman is headed in your direction, it’s
usually a good sign...unless you notice her
coming a little too quickly with pepper spray
in-hand.
But, generally speaking, if she’s taking
the initiative and approaching you, it’s
a positive indicator.
The next thing you’ll want to look for is
how she’s walking.
Is she being stern or moving her hips side-to-side
with a flirtatious vibe?
If it’s the latter, then she’s probably
attracted to you.
Women do this, often without realizing it,
because it’s a natural way to show off her
curves and get your attention.
So, if a lady is strutting toward you like
she’s on a catwalk, things are working out
in your favor.
9.
Arching - This is very indicative that a woman
is attracted to you.
If both of you are flirting with each other
and chatting, and you notice her change her
posture, it could be a signal that she’s
into you.
If she begins crossing her arms, turning away
from you, putting one leg over the other,
or slouching down from boredom, then you might
want to move on.
However, if she is sitting up straighter and
putting a slight arch in her back, these are
great signs!
A woman will naturally curve her back when
she’s interested in someone because it shows
off her physique and makes her look more desirable.
8.
Touching Objects - Let’s visualize this
scene: you’re in the club, and you’ve
made eye contact with a girl you’re attracted
to.
You approach her and things seem to be going
well, you’re having a lighthearted conversation,
and she appears to be interested.
Then, she throws her drink in your face!
That would be a huge indication that she doesn’t
want to continue being around you.
However, if she’s caressing her drink or
grazing the table with her fingertips, it
is a glaring sign that she’s attracted to
you.
A woman will often do subtle things like this
to let you know she’s into you without verbally
announcing it.
7.
Eye Contact - This body language signal is
essential when trying to determine whether
or not a woman is attracted to you.
If you are talking to a lady and she is looking
everywhere but at you, fidgeting, or tapping
her fingers on the table, it’s likely that
she isn’t interested.
However, if she’s listening to you intently,
laughing at your jokes, and most importantly,
making eye contact, it’s safe to say that
she finds you attractive.
Women will show interest in someone by looking
into their eyes because it shows that she’s
paying attention.
6.
Excited - Is she happy to be talking to you?
Is she showing enthusiasm throughout the conversation?
Is she jumping up and down with eagerness?
Well, she probably won’t do the latter,
but if she seems excited to be around you,
it means she likes you!
This applies to all people; if someone is
moping around, bored, and they seem uninterested,
it’s a negative sign.
It’ll be obvious that she’s attracted
to you by her reactions to what you’re saying.
If she appears energetic and ready to continue
the discussion, then she is most likely into
you.
5.
Twirling Her Hair - Just like women will play
with objects around them while interacting
with a person they’re attracted to, they
will also play with their hair.
If you’re chatting her up and she’s twirling
her hair around her finger, maintaining eye
contact, and seems engaged, it’s a major
hint that she’s into you.
Just like if she’s fixing her shirt, if
she’s making sure her hairdo is nice, then
she wants to impress you.
Another signal to look out for is if she’s
touching any other part of herself.
Is she rubbing her arm or leg?
Is she cupping her hands around her face?
Is she caressing her neck?
It doesn’t have to be her hair or objects
that she’s fidgeting with, if she’s exhibiting
any of these behaviors, it’s an indication
that she thinks you’re attractive.
4.
Gets Red - Although if you’re embarrassing
her, she might turn red as well, a woman generally
blushes because she’s nervous or shy, and
if she’s doing this around you, then she
could very well be attracted to you.
Maybe you’ve complimented her good-looks
or asked her to dance, and she’s into you,
so she agrees.
This can cause blood to rush into her cheeks,
which is an outward physical reaction of her
excitement!
This is a big sign that she’s interested.
3.
Lips - This is another indicator that a woman
is attracted to you.
If she bites her lip when you make eye contact
with her, take notice because it’s a signal
that she wants to get to know you better!
Let’s say you two are already talking, pay
attention because there are other signs to
look out for regarding a girl’s lips.
If she rubs her lips together, puckers them,
or slowly applies a sensuous shade of red
lipstick, it means she’s trying to be seductive
and let you know that she finds you alluring.
2.
It’s Getting Hot In Here - So, take off
all your clothes.
Well, not all of them.
A woman generally won’t completely strip
herself of her attire because she finds somebody
attractive.
However, she will give you clues that she’s
comfortable around you, and maybe she’d
like to show off her body...just a little.
If you approach a woman, start talking to
her, and the two of you hit it off, she might
give you some unmistakeable signals.
If a lady takes her sweater or jacket off,
for instance, she’s most likely interested.
If she isn’t, then she will keep the clothes
on and get ready to run, or at least be prepared
to leave as soon as the chance presents itself.
But, if she hangs up the coat and sticks around,
it’s a sign that things are moving in the
right direction.
1.
All Smiles - Perhaps the most obvious signal
that a woman finds you attractive is if she
smiles at you.
If she’s making her pearly whites visible
while interacting with you, or grinning at
you from across the room, then she’s probably
keen on getting to know you better.
This isn’t to be confused with baring her
teeth; if this is the case, then it’s a
threat usually demonstrated by rabid animals
or zombies.
However, since people don’t normally do
this, it’s probably safe to assume she’s
smiling at you.
Unless, of course, she decides to bite when
you approach.
All jokes aside, an engaging smile is a telling
sign to look out for if you think a girl might
find you attractive.
